What stops us from changing careers Practical advice from an expert.

What stops us from changing careers Practical advice from an expert.1KAs someone whos gone through a major career change, people often ask me whether it was scary. To be honest, it was one of the fruchtwein liberating things Ive ever done. Whats scary is getting to the moment when you make the leap and realize that most important thing I can do this.I thought a lot about that experience while talking to Melanie Fisher, Connections Manager at Escape the City, about how they help people find mora meaningful careers. I heard how others go through the same process I did by gradually building confidence, taking the leap, and ultimately feeling liberated and fulfilleuchtdiode. But it abflugs with overcoming those first emotions.Theyre paralyzed with indecisionOne of the biggest reasons that people dont make a career change, is that they imagine there is only one destination, and because they arent sure what that is. And so, they dont make any changes.Melanie put is succinctly there. Ive se en this tendency a lot in students Ive worked with over the years, but people of any age can fall into the same trap. Its a kind of linear thinking, I am at point A and am trying to get to point B. This is as opposed to I am at point A and will use my best judgement to figure out where I should go next. This indecision has serious consequences for people who are unhappy in their current careerIt is easy to become paralyzed with indecision putting off making a choice or a change for a week, a month, a year, two years, three years, and suddenly youve lost time, because of this idea of, I cant start until I know where Im going. This gets back to that feeling you get when you commit to discovering your next career and making the change. The beauty of a career change is that, its leid just about your job, its about your whole life. And, the sooner you can feel like you have control over your freedom to choose a new path, a different journey, even if you dont have all the answers, the mor e likely it is youll be able to start making small changes. I know personally, Ive never felt more liberated than the moment I decided not just to change careers, but to allow myself the time and space to explore and discover what new careers might be out there for myself. Getting to that point was next in our discussion.How to take the first stepOne way in which people combat that paralysis is thinking Where are my interests, where are my curiosities, where are all the small things that pull me on a day-to-day basis, where do I feel alive? And then, to take one to two small steps towards those things. In other words, much like with most goals, the key is beginning with small realistic steps.If you can inject a little bit more joy into your day-to-day, youll naturally start doing more of it. And, as soon as you do more of that thing, youll get better at it, and then, one day, someone will offer you money for it start small, find what interests you, and create projects around it, and test a new opportunity. As one of our team members calls it, dating a direction.Related articles6 powerful women to inspire your next career moveWhy we love (and hate) personal resumesPros and Cons of working in a startupThe beauty of this approach is also that it allows you to, to pick up on the analogy Melanie brought up, date several interests at once. If youre devoting only a bit of time to each, you can really explore where each one goes, how each makes you feel. I know this is what Ive done for the past several years and Ive been amazed at the opportunities its brought.For me, this meant trying podcasting as a way to engage with my passion for history instead of doing a PhD. That led to doing some voice acting, which led to working on scripts, which led to writing a screenplay for a documentary that won several awards at a NYC film festival. At the same time, working as a writer for various startups got me familiar with that world and eventually brought me to Kenya to help bu ild an online course for African entrepreneurs. I dated each direction and saw them take me in unpredictable and rewarding directions.None of those opportunities would have come about if I had picked a single career trajectory the moment I turned down a PhD and not spent years exploring options. But even if youre going to date a few interests, you still have to choose them.From Academic to Writer/Marketer/Voice Actor/Podcaster Melanie and the folks at Escape the City have two initial recommendations if youre feeling stuck and unsure of your next step. First, have a go at gaining some personal insight into how and what interests you. Take the time to sit down and work out what new areas are that youd like to explore as well as figuring out how to realign your current situation. Melanie suggests that the clues to your future are in your past, in your aspirations and that you can start to uncover these by asking yourself questions likeWhat do I enjoy about my current role? (environment , people, tasks).Could I drop down to three days a week in my current role?Can I ask for a raise/more responsibility/to move teams?What do I want to do less of?What was a career highlight for me and why was it so remarkable?What areas of my skill set do I wish to grow both professionally and personally?What would I do with my life if I knew I couldnt fail?The second recommendation is simply to take action. Pick something to focus on for the short term, create a small test or project to experiment with, and know that choosing one thing,for now, doesnt assign you to itfor life. Melanie suggested that you can do something as simple as approaching someone from an industry youre interested in and bestattungs a coffee with them to ask some questions about what they do. Then, pay attention to feedback do you feel excited, bored, let down, curious or fired up? The more feedback you can get about how engaged you are with your chosen direction, the more confident youll feel about moving towa rds it.Taking that control backMelanie pointed out that much of what she and her company are encouraging people to do goes against what theyve been taught. In other words, youre taught to wait for permission to succeed in something. Its, Heres the formula, heres the work, learn this, heres the task, now youre qualified. Rather than, Okay, what do I really want to develop within myself, and how can I do about doing that in an environment, in which really speaks to me? Its, like you said, its taking that control back, and throwing it against the system, which feels quite uncomfortable.Theres no denying that there are uncomfortable feelings involved. Its taken me a long time to get used to this less structured work in many fields and even longer for my family to understand and appreciate it. But the result has been a wide set of skills that leaves me open to grab interesting opportunities and feeling comfortable in my ability to adapt to a shifting job market. I wouldnt trade the excit ement and peace of mind that comes with those lessons for any PhD in the world.Ultimately, both myself and Melanie can say that the results of making this mindset shift and finding a new career are life-changing. If you have your own lessons from changing careers or have a question, leave us a comment. Tags career, career change, Self discovery